My mother always told me, "Don't trust anyone who talks about people behind their back.  “Sneak dissing” is more detrimental than one might imagine.  Our thoughts and our words carry energy.  The same energy that creates worlds and destroys them.  The same energy used to conjure.  Well the day that I decided to ignore that truth is the day that I learned a very important lesson.  My mother also said, “A hard head, carries a soft behind.”